22 01, 2016

From Date Night to that “First Night” to Every Night: Achieving Relationship Success 

By |2016-01-22T14:42:39-05:00January 22nd, 2016|Categories: blog|Tags: , |1 Comment

      Quite a few years ago, I was on a first date with a rather “hawt” (hot) guy.  At the end, I offered, “We should get together again soon.”  Dryly, he answered, “Sure thing.”       However, I never heard from him again—although I left several voice mails.     This was yet another in a succession of first dates—and a few seconds--that crashed and [...]

15 07, 2015

Just Dump His/Her A**!, Part Two

By |2015-07-15T10:23:52-04:00July 15th, 2015|Categories: blog|Tags: , |2 Comments

     Part One of “Just Dump His/Her A**!, Part One addressed reasons why you just can’t seem to dump the loser you’re dating.  Writer Norine Dworkin-McDaniel cleverly gave reasons why.       Now my friends, I present the second installment, which answers the question:  “Should you stay or go?”  According to Dworkin-McDaniel, “these steps can get you thinking—honestly—about the state of your union.”  [...]

6 07, 2015

Just Dump His/Her A**!, Part One

By |2015-07-06T13:09:54-04:00July 6th, 2015|Categories: blog|Tags: , , , , , , |0 Comments

     As you’re aware, I wear many hats:  Journalist (Huffington Post, Baltimore Gay Life,, Bilerico) , Author (“Nothing Can Tear Us Apart” series of novels), Talk Show Host (“The Wyatt O’Brian Evans Show”), Advocate/Motivational Speaker (LGBTQ Depression, Racism, Intimate Partner Violence/ Abuse), Voice-Over Instructor/Talent, Entertainer, and Lifestyle Personality.  So many “hats,” not enough heads…LOL!     As a Lifestyle Personality, I’ve researched and [...]

28 01, 2015

“The Daddy/Sir Playbook”: 4 Younger Guys

By |2015-01-28T20:39:59-05:00January 28th, 2015|Categories: blog|Tags: , , , , , , , , , |4 Comments

     A little more than a week ago—I’m sure you recall--I wrote a exclusive entitled, The “Sugah Daddy’s” Playbook (or Sumthin’ Like Dat), based on a recent Queerty article on intergenerational dating.  That article gave tips on “being the best daddy for your boy.”          Well, guess what?  You readers made The “Sugah Daddy’s” Playbook one of the [...]

21 08, 2014

Having Your (Sexual) Cake And Eating It, Too?

By |2014-08-21T12:26:50-04:00August 21st, 2014|Categories: blog|Tags: , , , |3 Comments

    Picture this:  you’re in a committed relationship.       But for whatever reason, both you and your partner decide to invite another man into your bed.  You both say to each other, “Now, this is only a one-time ‘thang!’  We’re just doing this to add some spice, to shake things up a bit.  This will make our union that much stronger!”      [...]

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