I’ve Got Luv On My Mind!
Today is “V-Day”—Valentine’s Day! In recognition of this special day of L-U-V, I decided to answer the following question: “Is there a particular recipe for nurturing and preserving a successful, lasting LGBTQ+ relationship?” To find out, I consulted an expert: certified personal love coach Brian Rzepczynski, columnist for The Gay Love Coach. His answer? “No.” Then he explains, “One of the beauties of [...]
After Being “SHATTERED!”, Get “RUTHLESS!”
I had the distinct pleasure of being interviewed by Eddie Pierce, Jr., an author and founder of Rainbow Room Publishing (RRP), for his podcast, “RRP Live!” Among other topics, we discussed my path as a journalist and an author, my experience as an Intimate Partner Violence and Abuse (IPV/A) survivor/subject matter expert/ advocate/speaker, and why IPV/A is a major theme [...]
Just How “RUTHLESS!” Can You Be?
Greetings, Y’all! I’m proud to announce that I just signed a publishing deal with Rainbow Advocacy Press to publish my upcoming novel, “RUTHLESS!”, the new installment in my “Nothing Can Tear Us Apart” (NCTUA) series (Gay/Ethnic/Psychological Thriller). The release date for “RUTHLESS!” is Tuesday, August 18, 2026. “SHATTERED!” is the current installment in the “NCTUA” series. Rainbow Advocacy Press is a global publisher of books, podcasts, and Substack content. The company “publishes and stewards works that [...]
Make Sure Your “Swipe Right” Ends Up Right!
Ahh, Grindr! That "Portal to Pleasure." When Grindr debuted in March 2009, it was one of the first geosocial apps for LGBTQ+ individuals. It has become the largest and most popular mobile app for our community. So, for countless Gay/SGL men, Grindr is their go-to way of "reaching out and touching" each other. (And I ain't talkin' about anything [...]
Being Resolute About Your Resolutions
Oh, my! It's a shiny New Year! And with the year ahead come all those ambitious, dramatic—and myriad — promises we make. We fervently vow, "This year's gonna be different 'cause THIS TIME, I'm gonna stick to my New Year's Resolutions!" Just like glue. So, it would be rather nifty to explore the roots of this time-honored tradition and [...]
Demolish Those Holiday Blues!
Oh, lawd. Where has the year gone? And it’s THAT time of the year again! And you’re an LGBTQ+ individual who’s dreading it. Precisely what am I talking about? The Holidays, dagnabbit! Why might you be in a major funk? Maybe you feel you can’t be your authentic self around family because you’re still closeted. Or, you might [...]
The Savagery of Stigma, Part Two
Intimate Partner Violence and Abuse (IPV/A) is a serious, growing, and potentially life-threatening public health problem that affects millions of Americans. Within the LGBTQ+ community, IPV/A describes physical, sexual, emotional, and/or psychological harm by a current or former partner or spouse. And due to stigma, this hellish and dysfunctional cycle of behavior is often dramatically underreported. So, what is [...]
The Savagery of Stigma, Part One
Intimate Partner Violence and Abuse (IPV/A) is a serious, growing, and potentially life-threatening public health problem that affects millions of Americans. Within the LGBTQ+ community, IPV/A describes physical, sexual, emotional, and/or psychological harm by a current or former partner or spouse. And due to stigma, this hellish and dysfunctional cycle of behavior is often dramatically underreported. So, what is [...]