The Hushed Whispers of IPV/A
Intimate Partner Violence and Abuse (IPV/A) is a serious, potentially life-threatening—but preventable--public health problem that impacts millions of Americans. Specifically, IPV/A describes the physical, sexual, emotional and/or psychological harm perpetrated by a current or former partner or spouse who is LGBTQ (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender and Queer/Questioning). This type of violence also can occur among heterosexual or same-sex couples, and does not require [...]
B-MORE Swaggers with Its PRIDE!
Baltimore Black Pride has arrived! The yearly—and much anticipated—celebration kicked off on October 3 and ends the 9th. I managed to “get my hands” on Mr. Carlton R. Smith, the influential and well-respected gay rights activist. Mr. Smith is the Executive Director/CEO of the Center for Black Equity (CBE) and Co-founder of Baltimore Black Pride. Having resided in Baltimore for decades, many (including myself) have affectionately bestowed upon him [...]
The “FRENZY!” of IPV/A
Just what does the (possibly) a little odd, a tad exotic acronym “IPV/A” stand for? Well, it refers to Intimate Partner Violence and Abuse, which is generally known as domestic violence and abuse (DVA) within the LGBTQ community. Sadly and unfortunately, this demeaning and horrendous cycle of behavior is an ongoing serious societal issue. And more prevalent than was once believed. As a journalist, I've extensively researched and [...]
Honey, Let Me Tell You Something! 16
“Love Is Not Always Blind” Guest Writer: R. L. Norman I stood at the door to the apartment, preparing myself for the mystery that was in store for me. “Behind this door might be my perfect soulmate,” I thought. I checked my clothes, my breath, my hair—everything. I had to make sure that I was totally “on point.” My hopes soaring, I got [...]
Peeling Back the Curtain On IPV/A
IPV/A, the acronym for Intimate Partner Violence and Abuse, is generally referred to as domestic violence and abuse (DVA) within the LGBTQ community. Sadly and unfortunately, this horrific behavior continues to be a critical issue. What makes matters worse is that stigma is a driving force that keeps this demeaning and demoralizing cycle of abuse “swept under the rug.” It’s the “elephant in the room.” This leads [...]
Hot Tea and Ice 15
“Roll With Being A Role Model!” Guest Writer: LaToya Hankins Greetings, Hot Tea and Ice Sippers! Trusting you are well and staying cool this summer. I’m currently giving thanks every day for air conditioning, cool beverages, and lightweight clothing. Although I’m a Southerner by birth, this heat is something else! Despite the high temperatures, I spent this past Fourth [...]
The “Undetectability” Of It All, Part Two
This past March, I penned “The Undetectability Of It All,” for Wyattevans.com. The article stated that the AIDS United Public Policy Committee declared that it has “strongly affirmed the conclusive evidence proving that people living with HIV who have achieved a sustained, undetectable viral load cannot transmit HIV to sexual partners. This evidence-based declaration reinforces AIDS United’s programmatic, policy and advocacy work to expand access to antiretroviral [...]
Not a Box of Crayons, Yo
For most of the long Independence Day Holiday, I was “takin’ a (generous) bite outta” the Big Apple! (LOL) And at one of the parties I attended, an incident got deep under my skin and really rankled me. This particular soiree was interracial: roughly, the breakdown was 50% Black, 30 % Caucasian and 20 % Latino/Blatino. And, it [...]